and Sexual Relation
engaging in sexual activity role of wife and husband is to make family.
is a social arrangement to allow woman and man to live together; a social
acceptance and conformity to maintain sexual relation for reproduction. Social
purpose of marriage is to regulate sexual relation between man and woman. This
system of sexual behavior differentiates human from other species, builds
sexual connection more respectable and meaningful to maintain discipline in the
society. Each society has different systems of marriage in relation to its
culture, yet, the objective of all is to recognize sexual conduct of partners
living together. Sexual activity is the foundation of marriage and fulfillment
is the tool for constant relation. Sexual craving is the attraction that drags
to togetherness. Under the social system of marriage, couples achieve identity
and highest respect in the society.
nature sexual activity may be procreation but for human it is sexual craving,
leads to seek partner for the fulfillment and marriage is the social solution.
Society disallows sexual relation before marriage or extra marital affairs,
reason behind this if approved there would be no difference between human and
other species. Human too would act as animals for seeking partner. For animals
may not be dangerous as their sexual periods are in long intervals, on the
other hand human have short and frequent could lead to violent atmosphere.
Social interference is to arrest such unwanted activities to store rights and
is portrayed as religious and fortunate that people wait anxiously for this
moment to enter married life. Celebrations and custom rituals signify the
identity of being Wife / Husband and togetherness. Real life begins for both
individuals when they need to share personality and sensual feelings. Sex rules
in the beginning of married life for openness and understanding each other. Sex
is the instrument that connects both to represent as one to make family, family
becomes a fraction of the society. Sexual contentment is essential for first
stage to retain married life intact. First stage of married life is sensitive;
each partner's endeavor is to influence own approach to create self environment
in the home. This is psychological war to create own dominance, weaker one has
to surrender. Man surrenders when he is economically, physically and
emotionally weak. Women are more sensible, understand social pressure on women
as each religion prescribes women's role as submissive. Also as I feel man is
not as keen as woman to bind self in the family. It is woman's attempt; man
sticks in the family. Woman's desire of own family is for protection/security
of own and children. Woman needs freedom but with protection and security, to
an adult woman her own family is her security. Keeping ?family? in the mind she
sacrifices the dominance. Without woman there is no family so woman is the
pillar of the family structure. In modern world woman's rights have awakened
her to educate self and economic independence. Has revolutionized the social
thinking about woman, she is now more independent and self esteemed resulted
many changes of married life. Both men and women have to compromise for stable
family. Old system of marriage is not practical any more, both man and woman
need to be familiar with each other before marriage, so can understand the
personality and history can help to advance. Solutions become easier to rectify
weaker points in order to consecrate family value.
In many a cases disappointment takes place when desire exists for unreachable
in any form. "Adore what you have and what is within reach".
Sincerity of both the partners builds confidence in them to last relation.
Sexual satisfaction is enticement to keep relation so not to hesitate. Satisfy
partner in whatever painless/ non hurting manner.
Many marital disputes are due to past sexual relations that are kept secret.
When exposed becomes matter of life and death. Revelation in the beginning
Compromising own ego for positive reasons builds smoothness.